The psychologist revealed the main secret of raising a happy child
The happiness of a child depends on a number of factors that accompany his upbringing: atmosphere, values, parental view of the world. This was told to RIAMO by Oksana Bakumova, a psychologist, specialist in child-parent relations.
"Of course, love your child - the first and most important advice in raising a happy child. Unconditional love is when you love and accept a child as he is. With all its features, advantages and disadvantages. In any situation," Bakumova explained.
She advised to show love not only when everything is fine, but also when the child's behavior leaves much to be desired. But there should be no permissiveness in the family. In a relationship, it is necessary to adhere to clear boundaries that all family members observe. In all this, the foundation is unconditional love.
The specialist also advised to spend time with children. For example, to do useful things that bring joy and help to immerse yourself in the life of a child: 10-20 minutes a day of full and meaningful pastime is enough for the child to receive a full portion of attention.
Do not forget to say such phrases as "I love you", "I am proud of you", "I missed you", "I believe you", "I am always on your side" and remember hugs and kisses.
Earlier, Life wrote that children do not always need to give in to games, but to teach them to lose with dignity. To do this, parents sometimes have to beat their children in chess.
